Things I’ve Learned from Women Who Dumped Me

by Ambrosia on May 2, 2012

Remember: It's not just a matter of making up, but of making up the right way! Here's the compassionate guide that helped me, The Magic of Making Up.

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Amanda from kraft paper October 1, 2010 at 6:19 am: I think the biggest lesson of all was seeing someone believe in me so much that I actually started to believe in myself. I think for most boys, we tend to start out pretending to be bad at whatever it is we are excited about. For me, it was music and life itself.I remember the first time having to think in a “we” mentality and not thinking for just me. These are the small things that can really be a problem for the first time if you are not used to it.
John Dias from watch nba finals online July 8, 2011 at 3:09 am: Dismissing a woman’s opinion is perhaps the worst thing you can do to her! Never do that. Listen to what she has to say and don’t make her feel wrong. And don’t be a lecturer every time. Many times she just wants you to listen to her and that would make her feel good. Also, women like care and concern but an over dose would only make them withdraw! So beware.
Daniel from limo service Minneapolis airport September 7, 2011 at 5:53 am: The main thing that we need to learn is how to judge people. We should have known after a few dates that the other person is not serious about the relationship and might dump. This understanding would help us when we date next.
Methew from bar items September 7, 2011 at 6:06 am: I think it is not necessary that a woman had an intention of dumping. Maybe she just didn’t like the man after getting into the relationship and hence decided to walk away without giving any explanation!
David from Cheap pet insurance October 11, 2011 at 2:04 am: I was having a beautiful relationship past 8 months but the day she dumped me, everything seemed to be ever for me. I now realize life is not just about having a girlfriend. Its about loving everyone including friends and family and siblings. Giving her all the importance in this world was just a waste of my time which i deeply regret but its not going to happen any more.
George from merchant account January 11, 2012 at 2:38 am: The women in my life I must confess have taught me a lot. My mother taught me to walk, talk and do whatever else I do. My first girl friend taught me to kiss and that is it. My second girl friend taught me to make love, my third taught me to French kiss and the list goes on. But my fiance who recently dumped me taught me to never judge a book by its cover and the fact that it applies to life as well. I was madly in love with her, who would not be, she had great looks and was soft spoken. But it was only later on that I realized that she was the perfect woman to achieve what she wanted and that was to have fun and enjoy life at the cost of her partners. I lost a large amount of money and property on her, but learnt a lesson for life. Never propose or move in with a woman until you are 100% sure of it.
Charles Ceccarelli from pintle hitch February 10, 2012 at 1:33 am: It is good to see that you have learned a lot from your mistakes. These are the signs of good responsible human being. I would also like to share with you that even I was dumped by two women in my life before meeting my wife. But I thank God to make this happen as it made me more stronger in life. It also helped me to learn more about how the relationships should be handled and made me more matured. It is rightly said that ‘We learn more from our mistakes’. And this is the reason why my relation with my wife is growing stronger day by day.
Jeo from cabinets calgary February 10, 2012 at 3:54 am: Women are great teacher and from your mom to your daughter all the women along the way teach you many lessons in life. Love lessons are the ones that get complicated as they go around. I have had a few women who taught me a lot about love, life and destiny. My first girl-friend and my wife helped me to grow in love and be able to be the man I am today.