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Very good points about whether you should even think about getting back. Some people just want to get back to get over the ‘post-breakup’ depression and get back into bad relationship again. I have seen couples breaking up, patching up and then breaking up bitterly and I have seen them getting married after a patch up, the major difference was ‘time’ between breakup and patch up. The ones who got married took well over a year before they decided to get back.
I love your article for its realism and rankness. I would like to add. It would be very good not to have a break up in the first place. However, if at all it happens, it’s not the time to grieve. Rather one must analyse the situation to understand the causes. After a lot of thinking, if one can’t stay without the soul mate then it’s time for reconciliation. Frank, honest approaches would do no harm.
I appreciate the point that the couple should consider coming back together only when they have sorted their minds out about the reasons that caused the separation in the first place, or else it will just be a repeat cycle.
Deciding if you should get back with your ex also depends on how much time has passed since your break up. The answer will depend on the nature of your relationship and the circumstances surrounding your break up. Obviously these are unique to you and your ex.The ultimate decision about getting back with your ex or not must be made by you alone. After all, you are the one who will have to live with your decision.
What do you remember the most from your previous relationship, is it warm, cherished moments or cold fights, wild arguments? Sometimes it is better to assess your past, than to just jump to a conclusion. Also, it is pointless to just go back for a temporary relief.
Before you take any action, ask yourself this question: what is more important than your happiness? By this, I don’t mean one should be selfish, arrogant and a third grade MCP. No, but there comes a time when you should have been catered with better situations, less fights and quiet & lovable moments. Think about all these and then give another shot at your dwindling relationship.
I guess there should be understanding and most of the break ups are due to lack of space and trust. Also it is not wise to bombard your ex with messages or calls, because by doing these things you are losing your self-respect. Firstly you must not lose your temper or say things which may cause breakup. But if this happens you can try to make them understand your point then it’s on them whether they want to carry on with you or no, but you obviously cannot force them to be with you.