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This is an extremely helpful post. Writing a letter is a good route to take when you’ve messed up. Often, it’s hard to find the perfect things to say when you’re talking to a person, and it’s even harder when you’re trying to apologize! A letter allows ou to have as much time as you need to get the words just right.
I was writing a letter to my ex as I can’t able to forget her, I make sure to use some of the ideas highlighted here. I wish it helps and I wish she will get convinced hopefully.
Interesting,Thank you so much for writing this article.I must say that your blog really impressed me.And hope it will give them idea to get their ex back.
Getting hurt is the thing we don’t want to our self.Because we want a perfect and happily relationship ever.
Love letters are lovely. I would love to receive one and would preserve it till eternity. I understand it is not easy to pen down our feelings. We do that only when we know the other person would understand or at least try to. We know he would not make fun or laugh at it. We can email too. They do work for sure.
We cannot rely on love letters! What if the other person does not read it? We would keep assuming that he is not interested to talk and feel hurt or move on either ways. Better to go and speak directly. If the other person does not talk, only then should we write letters. I may be wrong, but feel that nothing can be matched to face to face convincing.
Thanks for the vine!
I had already sent my letter before I read your article but did a lot of the same things you stated. I took the honest route that I remember(as breakups can cause you to forget many things) and just told her that I could not remember all the reasons though we were living in different states at the time that could have been a factor. (as it still is) In conclusion I just stated the fact of how our freindship had meaning to me and left it at that. I think a scented letter is a little over the top however!
Whats plan “B” after the letter?
How about sending her a copy of the 2005 book “My Boyfreinds Back” by the ex wife of the former mayor of NYC!
great information nicely written very distinctive and to the points.
This is a great post. I had two months of no contact w/my ex after he told me he wasn’t feeling it after almost 2 years of going out. I knew I needed to contact him in some way, and I used the ideas in this post to send him a Rosh Hashanah card, which he didn’t get. However, I sent it again along w/a birthday card(yes, I know it was a bit over the top), and it worked! This was a week ago, and we are back together, better than ever, I think. Really wasn’t expecting it to work so well. Thank you so much!
Wow, I’m so glad I found this. It really helped reassure me in what I should write in the letter to him. I’m permanently in love with a man and I’ve been trying to get him to talk to me but I feel a letter might work. I was thinking of using this sorta thing on him and this just helped a whole lot. Hopefully this will work. He in my heart and soul is my soulmate and I need him in my life so thanks for this.
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I was under the idea that in today’s world people have become more and more advanced and love letters were one from the past. But your post has made me think of writing love letters as something novel for the new age, a very very romantic gesture. Falling in love is one thing and staying in love is another thing, anyone who has been in a relationship will testify to this. With Exes it may just prove that love letters are the trump card, I can imagine an apt scenario, your ex in a relationship with anew person and your love letter. the balance is sure to tilt in your favor. Thanks for this great and romantic idea.
You have rightly said that instead of texting and emailing one should prefer writing hand written letter to get your back ex. Texting and emailing would no doubt convey your feelings but hand written letter seems more of romantic way to convey your feelings. Even your ex will get to know how much efforts you are taking to get him/her back. This truly will help your ex to know how much from bottom of your heart you love him/her.
Thanks for this! gave my letter to my ex an hour ago and she already texted me and fb messaged me asking what fantastic thing has happened in my life! I feel like I have taken back some control from our breakup. I havent responded to her yet. Now just waiting to see what she does next. Guys need to give our ex’s plenty of space to think and reflect their decisions while making contact at the right times and trying to re-attract them into your life.
What A great article! In todays world we are so use to the technology that we have that we forget how putting some effort into something so simple is very meaningful. In my situation we broke up a month ago and just found out a few days ago he is in a new relationship and has cut off all contact with me. Even deleted me from Facebook when he changed his status. I wished him luck and basically said goodbye without using those words. A letter will be a good thing to fegainr contact again. In a few weeks I’ll send one. Thank you for this article .
I’m happy it worked out for you. Wish you the best of luck!!
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Has this worked for anyone? I see that it has for just one person here. I’m becoming depressed and wrote a letter. But I don’t think it’ll work.
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I couldn?t resist commenting. Well written!
I just don’t get this at all. People break up for many reasons, but usually for something bad. I honestly don’t think a letter will/can work.
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