The Joy of Making Up the Right Way | The Magic of Making Up
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Hi,
My boyfriend has been deployed to Germany. He has to be there for 3 years. Everything was going good with us until a month ago and he stop calling me and he wasn’t responding to my messages. Now we have the web cam and I was doing everything so he can know that im not going anywhere. In our last conversation he told me that he is keeping his distance from everything in the states except his daughter and his grandmother. He also said to me “don’t ask why and just leave it alone”. So, now I don’t know what to do.
Hi Launita,
I’m terribly sorry to hear about what’s happened with your boyfriend. But what you’ll have to do is exactly what he says — leave him alone for now. I know it’s very painful, but it’s really the best way to go. Give him at least three weeks. Let him deal with whatever’s bothering him, and then take steps to renew contact. I don’t want to push Travis’ book on you, but it really is very comforting and helpful in situations such as these. So much of the pain comes from the fear of losing someone you love forever. If you have hope — realistic hope and a common sense plan — then you’d feel better immediately. But yes, you’ll have to stop trying to contact him. Absolutely. Totally. As a matter-of-fact, you might want to take it a step further: Write him a letter, telling him that you agree with the breakup. Shocking? Yes, but it works. Of course, you have to do it in a very specific way. I’ll be writing an entry on breakup letters. So stay tuned. In the meanwhile, keep your chin up. Things are not as dark as they seem.
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Well its me again and come to find out the guy who I thought that cared about us, got into another relationship with somebody in Germany…and he didn’t tell me about I had to find out on his myspace page. So, that’s what his space was all about.
Hi Launita, I just read your post. I was wondering what had happened since then and if you guys got back.
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Hey, My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. We been in love at a very young age and its been about four years since I have fell in love with him. The first time we were together he broke up with me after few months and suddenly got into another relationship with another girl after two months. After an year of crying and waiting for him and calling him almost everyday begging to come back. After that girl breaks up with him and few months of him being upset he has finally come back to me. He told me he loves me and always had and how I was the one. Our relationship was beyond perfect, it was a life in heaven. He made me the happiest person alive, we fell crazy in love with each other. He got a tattoo of my name on his chest and practically told everyone that I am his wife even though we are not married. It’s been an year now since we got back and for the past 2 months he started changing. Those weren’t changes that hurt me because he had always said he loves me. But for the past month, he went on a vacation and also on this business trip with his friends and had completely ignored me since. We fight everyday and just recently he told me he does not love me and just wants to be alone. I cried asking why and he said I don’t trust him and how I always fight with him judging him.I knew these were fatal excuses, because he loved me beyond that or at least I thought. I realized he started talking very differently and this isn’t the guy I fell in love with. I could not let go because I love him so much and I want things to go back to the way they were. I begged for his forgiveness and asked him not to leave me and he had said listen to me and I will think about it and give you a call tomorrow. He hasn’t called yet. Please tell me a way to fix this and get him back.
For me, having some quiet time alone is as vital as breathing. I am a much better person when I have had the opportunity to enjoy some solitude and everyone around me benefits. I think trust comes into it a fair bit too. If you trust your significant other, then you shouldn’t have a problem accepting their needs.
Over the years I have had the same struggle. It has been difficult for me to walk away and give people the space they need and trust in them to reach out if they needed to. I used to like to think that I could “fix it” by sticking around and that I could fix it better and faster than they could. I used to take someone wanting space very personal and I would allow my ego to become hurt.
The article is great. As if telling my own story! I have found a way out. When I feel my husband is withdrawing, not asking more when I tell him about something keep other plans for his weekend or indulge in reading a book then I perceive them as signals that he needs space. My mind keeps revolving around him which is not good for either of us. So I divert my mind by going for shopping, talking over the phone with as many people as I can, go to a friend’s place, look out ways to decorate our room or clean our kitchen. Within a short span, he comes back to me in his best forms. He is really lovable, care a lot, listens to me and take me out. These gaps actually do us good. The only thing I do is keep myself busy with other things when he withdraws.
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so i met this amazing guy after our first date we were always together. two weeks into our relationship he was working nights and well i was hanging out with my guy cousin and some friends long story short i got too drunk and slept with one of my cousin’s friends. I told my boyfriend the very next morning i didnt know exactly what happened but I know something happened. We moved on he said he would not forgive me but for the sake of our relationship he doesnt want to loose me and we would work on it. Two weeks after that we decided to move in together everything was going right we love each other’s family got along yes we argueed and had little problems but nothing big. Now about four months in our relationship, a week ago he brought up that alot of times when he goes to work at nights he can help but think im doing wrong. He says he trusts me and loves me but he hates the feeling and just needs space and time to deal with it. Might i mention he is very insecure and always wants me by his side. He brought this up Tuesday and didnt leave till Thursday. Finally Sunday he said he needs this week to think about everything he needs to tell me and see how we’re going to work out and i need to just leave him alone he’ll come back to me. Needless to say I am going crazy without him we decided we do not need to stay in the apartment anymore if we do move in together it’ll be somewhere else. he took more than half his stuff and i had to go to a relatives. He is a great man he let me quit my job so i can focus on school and i could be here when he’s off since he has a crazy schedule. I guess my question is will he come back, are things going to be worse i want to fight for him there are not alot of good guys in the world like him but am i fighting for a lost battle?
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When a guy says he wants space he means, I have found another girl who I like better than you. Thanks for a wonderful time but I need to move on. Even though you see some sort of miracle possibility that he may come back the chances of that are extremely low and wishing for that is almost hoping for a miracle. As a man I would use this phrase to break-up with a woman as I do not want her to know that during our current relationship, I found someone else, if I care for her I will most definitely not want to hurt her and make her feel low due to the happenings and the best way to do that is to say this politically correct line.