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He Says He Wants Space. What Does That Mean and How Do I Get Him Back?
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Hi,
My boyfriend has been deployed to Germany. He has to be there for 3 years. Everything was going good with us until a month ago and he stop calling me and he wasn’t responding to my messages. Now we have the web cam and I was doing everything so he can know that im not going anywhere. In our last conversation he told me that he is keeping his distance from everything in the states except his daughter and his grandmother. He also said to me “don’t ask why and just leave it alone”. So, now I don’t know what to do.
Hi Launita,
I’m terribly sorry to hear about what’s happened with your boyfriend. But what you’ll have to do is exactly what he says — leave him alone for now. I know it’s very painful, but it’s really the best way to go. Give him at least three weeks. Let him deal with whatever’s bothering him, and then take steps to renew contact. I don’t want to push Travis’ book on you, but it really is very comforting and helpful in situations such as these. So much of the pain comes from the fear of losing someone you love forever. If you have hope — realistic hope and a common sense plan — then you’d feel better immediately. But yes, you’ll have to stop trying to contact him. Absolutely. Totally. As a matter-of-fact, you might want to take it a step further: Write him a letter, telling him that you agree with the breakup. Shocking? Yes, but it works. Of course, you have to do it in a very specific way. I’ll be writing an entry on breakup letters. So stay tuned. In the meanwhile, keep your chin up. Things are not as dark as they seem.
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Well its me again and come to find out the guy who I thought that cared about us, got into another relationship with somebody in Germany…and he didn’t tell me about I had to find out on his myspace page. So, that’s what his space was all about.
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