Comments on: Ending a Relationship – Breaking Up is Hard To Do http://makinguptherightway.com/ending-a-relationship-breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed Get your ex back and have an even better relationship than you had before. Mon, 23 Aug 2010 06:55:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Todd@Hockey Online Live Free http://makinguptherightway.com/ending-a-relationship-breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/#comment-667 Todd@Hockey Online Live Free Tue, 10 Aug 2010 12:14:46 +0000 http://makinguptherightway.com/?p=483#comment-667 Breaking up can be one of the most painful experiences of a person’s life. It can also be one of the most miraculous in terms of personal growth. Breaking up can be one of the most painful experiences of a person’s life. It can also be one of the most miraculous in terms of personal growth.

]]> By: Chintan Ranchhod@Stock Market Tips http://makinguptherightway.com/ending-a-relationship-breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/#comment-644 Chintan Ranchhod@Stock Market Tips Wed, 04 Aug 2010 04:36:30 +0000 http://makinguptherightway.com/?p=483#comment-644 I was dating my boyfriend for two and a half years. We aren't together anymore, well we pretty much broke up once a week anyways, and that was my fault. I really never meant it, I was just so frustrated and hurt, and I felt the only way for the pain to go away is just to say forget it all. We would eventually be okay after a few hours, but our happiness was always temporary. I really love him so much, and I try so hard to make it work, I cared so much and when he didn't that's when I came crashing down and decide to give up. I really don't know what to do. I am in University, with an extremely stressful semester and I don't know how I am going to get through it. I cant concentrate on my work, I cant stop crying. I just don't know what to do. I was dating my boyfriend for two and a half years. We aren’t together anymore, well we pretty much broke up once a week anyways, and that was my fault. I really never meant it, I was just so frustrated and hurt, and I felt the only way for the pain to go away is just to say forget it all. We would eventually be okay after a few hours, but our happiness was always temporary.

I really love him so much, and I try so hard to make it work, I cared so much and when he didn’t that’s when I came crashing down and decide to give up. I really don’t know what to do.

I am in University, with an extremely stressful semester and I don’t know how I am going to get through it. I cant concentrate on my work, I cant stop crying.

I just don’t know what to do.

]]> By: Kim Arquette@carpet restoration NY http://makinguptherightway.com/ending-a-relationship-breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/#comment-640 Kim Arquette@carpet restoration NY Tue, 03 Aug 2010 10:13:00 +0000 http://makinguptherightway.com/?p=483#comment-640 Well I've been in this relationship for four years now n although I see it's not really going anywhere I'm still a bit terrified to end it. He doesn't love me for who I am. I've lost all of my self esteem n self confidence in this relationship, I'm really hurt to know I love him so much n can't receive this love back,. He loves me when he wants too and treats me like I'm his slave. But as you said breaking up is a very hard thing to do. Well I’ve been in this relationship for four years now n although I see it’s not really going anywhere I’m still a bit terrified to end it. He doesn’t love me for who I am. I’ve lost all of my self esteem n self confidence in this relationship, I’m really hurt to know I love him so much n can’t receive this love back,. He loves me when he wants too and treats me like I’m his slave. But as you said breaking up is a very hard thing to do.

]]> By: Matthew Robbins@server collocation http://makinguptherightway.com/ending-a-relationship-breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/#comment-635 Matthew Robbins@server collocation Sat, 31 Jul 2010 04:27:34 +0000 http://makinguptherightway.com/?p=483#comment-635 Breaking up is never easy, and the healing process is long and hard. But sometimes it's soothing just to know that people are there for you. So grab a seat, some hankies and a bowl of ice cream, and let it all out. Breaking up is never easy, and the healing process is long and hard. But sometimes it’s soothing just to know that people are there for you. So grab a seat, some hankies and a bowl of ice cream, and let it all out.

]]> By: Mirella@elevator expert witness http://makinguptherightway.com/ending-a-relationship-breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/#comment-632 Mirella@elevator expert witness Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:30:27 +0000 http://makinguptherightway.com/?p=483#comment-632 My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. We broke up once and got back together when I don't think I was ready yet. We have been together again for 2 years and all I can think about is that one day I may regret not having seen what else is out there or dating other guys. I have no idea what to do, but I am 24 and very confused. I think he knows something is up because he has been being so great lately and even talking about getting our own place together. We get along so well, we hardly ever fight and people tell us all the time what a great relationship we have. I love his family and mine really likes him too. But I just feel so lost to be in a relationship this long and have not had a chance to get out and see what else there is. How do I ever tell him this stuff without his heart breaking to pieces??? The only thing I can come up with is tell him the truth. I really feel that is the best thing, because he might be feeling the same way! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. We broke up once and got back together when I don’t think I was ready yet. We have been together again for 2 years and all I can think about is that one day I may regret not having seen what else is out there or dating other guys. I have no idea what to do, but I am 24 and very confused. I think he knows something is up because he has been being so great lately and even talking about getting our own place together. We get along so well, we hardly ever fight and people tell us all the time what a great relationship we have. I love his family and mine really likes him too. But I just feel so lost to be in a relationship this long and have not had a chance to get out and see what else there is. How do I ever tell him this stuff without his heart breaking to pieces??? The only thing I can come up with is tell him the truth. I really feel that is the best thing, because he might be feeling the same way!

]]> By: Matt@Aussie Dating Sites Information http://makinguptherightway.com/ending-a-relationship-breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/#comment-575 Matt@Aussie Dating Sites Information Sun, 27 Jun 2010 12:43:04 +0000 http://makinguptherightway.com/?p=483#comment-575 Breaking up certainly is very hard to do, and that's why so many people stay in unhappy relationships. They're afraid - both of hurting their partner, and because they don't want to be alone. But if you know the magic has gone then you should act decisively, and sooner rather than later. If you don't then it gets more likely that you'll seek out solace by having a clandestine affair. And if you do that, then make the break afterward, that's a really bad scenario. Not only will you hurt your ex much more deeply than if you weren't doing the dirty on her or him, your new relationship has started out in a messy way. Very confusing emotionally for all involved! Breaking up certainly is very hard to do, and that’s why so many people stay in unhappy relationships. They’re afraid – both of hurting their partner, and because they don’t want to be alone.

But if you know the magic has gone then you should act decisively, and sooner rather than later. If you don’t then it gets more likely that you’ll seek out solace by having a clandestine affair.

And if you do that, then make the break afterward, that’s a really bad scenario. Not only will you hurt your ex much more deeply than if you weren’t doing the dirty on her or him, your new relationship has started out in a messy way. Very confusing emotionally for all involved!

]]> By: Chris@commercial locksmith washington dc http://makinguptherightway.com/ending-a-relationship-breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/#comment-393 Chris@commercial locksmith washington dc Thu, 29 Apr 2010 06:37:48 +0000 http://makinguptherightway.com/?p=483#comment-393 I think it's just as important to be able to celebrate with your friends when good things happen as bad things like a breakup; it helps to be able to be there for them when the chips are down. If you end up not liking someone then it may take more than the transition time as you have mentioned. That said, I totally believe that people can outgrow each other, and we shouldn't beat ourselves up for the breaking up. I think it’s just as important to be able to celebrate with your friends when good things happen as bad things like a breakup; it helps to be able to be there for them when the chips are down. If you end up not liking someone then it may take more than the transition time as you have mentioned. That said, I totally believe that people can outgrow each other, and we shouldn’t beat ourselves up for the breaking up.

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