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I think it’s just as important to be able to celebrate with your friends when good things happen as bad things like a breakup; it helps to be able to be there for them when the chips are down. If you end up not liking someone then it may take more than the transition time as you have mentioned. That said, I totally believe that people can outgrow each other, and we shouldn’t beat ourselves up for the breaking up.
Breaking up certainly is very hard to do, and that’s why so many people stay in unhappy relationships. They’re afraid – both of hurting their partner, and because they don’t want to be alone.
But if you know the magic has gone then you should act decisively, and sooner rather than later. If you don’t then it gets more likely that you’ll seek out solace by having a clandestine affair.
And if you do that, then make the break afterward, that’s a really bad scenario. Not only will you hurt your ex much more deeply than if you weren’t doing the dirty on her or him, your new relationship has started out in a messy way. Very confusing emotionally for all involved!
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. We broke up once and got back together when I don’t think I was ready yet. We have been together again for 2 years and all I can think about is that one day I may regret not having seen what else is out there or dating other guys. I have no idea what to do, but I am 24 and very confused. I think he knows something is up because he has been being so great lately and even talking about getting our own place together. We get along so well, we hardly ever fight and people tell us all the time what a great relationship we have. I love his family and mine really likes him too. But I just feel so lost to be in a relationship this long and have not had a chance to get out and see what else there is. How do I ever tell him this stuff without his heart breaking to pieces??? The only thing I can come up with is tell him the truth. I really feel that is the best thing, because he might be feeling the same way!