How (Not) to Win Love Back: The Evil Games People Play

Ambrosia — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 17:23:50 +0000

Too many people think they must aggressively pursue their ex in order to get him or her back. In fact, nothing could be further from the truth. If you want to know how to win love back, follow the advice in this article as closely as possible.

The first thing you need to know in the how to win love back arena is that you do not want to chase your ex.

Too many guys think they must pursue their exes. They send hundreds of texts, call at odd hours of the day, and even stalk their ex girlfriend's home. They send flowers and gifts.

This is wrong, wrong, wrong. Why?

Well, you'll hear a lot of people tell you that it makes you look "desperate." Could be. But that's not the main problem. The main problem is that it makes cling, and when you cling to someone who wants to get away, it just makes that person want to get away harder. So when you're "try everything and now" mode of trying to win love back, you end up driving it away.

Guys think -- and are so worried about -- losing a woman's respect, that she'll play "games" with him if he shows "desperation." If your girlfriend wanted to get away from you, for whatever reason, then the last thing she wants to do is play games. She wants her "space." She wants time out. And the best -- most common sensical things you can do for her is give it to her.

There are those who would recommend that you play "games" with her head, too. They would say that they best way to win back her love would be to pretend absolute lack of interest.

They would suggest that when you are in a group that includes her, flirt with every girl but her. If she has an enemy in the group, pay special attention to that girl. By ignoring your ex, you make her want to come back to you. You are reminding her of all of your charms, but not applying them to her. That's what some folks would say.

I understand the method or reason behind the madness, but I still think such a technique could sadly backfire. First, if you two get caught up in games, then when does the honesty enter? Second, if she's the type who only wants you when you appear not to want her, then she doesn't really want you at all. Third, if you play up to another girl who sincerely thinks you're interested in her, then you're using someone, playing with her emotions just to manipulate your ex.

Not a good idea.

I've heard it said that it's a good idea to go out on a date with one of her close friends. To send your ex a text message saying, "now that we're just friends, I wanted your opinion on something. Where should I take Mary to dinner after the big game?" That is sure to make your ex girlfriend jealous. It's also sure to cause trouble between her and Mary, while setting Mary up for a disappointment. Some would say it's a great trick for winning her love back. I say it's just a good way to spread the misery and practically ensure that she'll never come back to you.

These are just some of the evil games people play when trying to figure out how to win love back. Don't you play them. They'll only backfire.

And, that is my advice for how (not) to win love back.

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How to Get Your Ex Back: Avoiding Rebound Relationships

Ambrosia — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 19:25:53 +0000

A lot of people seem to think that rebounds are bad, that if you really want your ex back, you need to avoid rebound relationships. This isn't necessarily true, and here's why: It's a hard fact to swallow, but the truth is your ex isn't the only person in the world who will ever be able to make you happy. It may feel like all is lost without him, but trust me, a lot of other people could be just as wonderful, if not better for you.

Rebound relationships have a bad reputation. They tend to be a little hasty, and sometimes people get hurt because one person wasn't as serious as the other. However, during the short span of time after the breakup in which you're not really talking to each other, it's actually not a bad idea to take stock of yourself and part of that is to see what sort of people are around you.

Most of the time, even if you still want to get your ex back, playing the singles game for a little while is actually good for healing your heartache. It'll show you that life doesn't end without your ex, and even if you're still in love with him and want to give things another try, you'll find some confidence in knowing it's not the end of the world without him. Confidence can give you a lot of strength, and even help get him back.

There's nothing like the reassurance that everything will be okay regardless of whether you're successful in getting your ex back, to make it easier to get your ex back. So really, a rebound relationship might not be your particular taste, but it's far from the "horrible move" that it's become known as.

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