Are you unable to think about anything except "I want my wife to love me again?" Has your marriage gone by the wayside and you don't know why or what to do about it? Here are some tips that can help you out.

If you don't know why your wife has stopped loving you (or so she says), then that's the first thing you need to figure out. First, if your wife is still with you, then she probably does still love you. If she didn't, she would be somewhere else. So that's something positive to keep in mind. So why is she saying that she doesn't love you or just acting like she doesn't love you?

The main reason a woman will feel like she's fallen out of love is because she isn't getting the attention and appreciation she craves. Women are multi-faceted and do many things for you and your family. They work, take care of the kids, do all the household duties, have a social life that includes other friends and families and other interests that you both may not share.

So, ask yourself, do you appreciate everything your wife does for you? Do you appreciate that she is her own person and has her own ideas and interests, not all of which will be the same as yours. Do you appreciate all the little things she does to show you she cares? If so, then you need to let her know if you haven't already.

On the other hand, there is such a thing as overdoing it. You don't want to be fawning all over your wife and constantly asking her what's wrong and how you can help her or make her feel more loved. If you've been doing that and it's just making her push you away even more, then it's time to stop. Don't be negative or hostile about it. continue to be positive and cheerful.

But just give her space. Focus on taking care of yourself. Make sure you're eating right, exercising and going out with friends. Take the kids out on your own and leave your wife some time to herself. You can still offer comments up like "Boy, you sure do look nice today" but leave it at that. Then walk out the door and go to work.

Once you step back a bit and give your wife some space, as well as focus on yourself and show her that you are not going to dye without her, she will start to see you as someone that is to be admired and appreciated as well. Take it slow and let her make the first move towards you again. Hopefully this has helped you take some of the mystery and pain out of the statement "I want my wife to love me again."

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Wondering, "How can I get my girlfriend to love me again . . ." after you've cheated? If so, you've probably already tried everything you can think of. You've told her it didn't mean anything, you've apologized over and over again and said you'd never do it again, you've begged on your hands and knees for forgiveness. But that didn't work and you're back to square one.

You need to be careful when you're trying to win your girlfriend back under any circumstances--but especially if you've cheated. You do want her back desperately and would do anything to change what you did, but it won't help to appear desperate. That would only contribute to the many reasons she has for not accepting you back right now. But how can you show her how sorry you are then?

One of the best strategies in regaining your girlfriend's heart is to write her a letter. Tell her that you agree with her decision to take some time. Tell her that she's exactly right, the two of you should really be going your own separate ways. Tell her that you've seen the end coming for quite a while now. After that, write a short apology. Tell her how very sorry you are for cheating on her. Agree that it showed a tremendous lack of respect towards her and once again convey how you really regret having done it. And finally, reveal that something really wonderful as happened in your life and you'd like to tell her about it whenever you can. Sign off in a neutral way and you've created the letter.

Whether you've realized it or not, sending a letter that contains those concepts is an extremely effective way to get your girlfriend's "love blood" flowing again. You're showing in a very classy way that you know what you've done and understand how it has hurt her and, at the same time, you're showing her that you're not completely devastated and mucking around in self-hate and pity. ..you're ready to start anew. It's very likely when your girlfriend reads the letter that she will contact you soon afterwards and you won't be in the position of begging for her time and forgiveness anymore.

This is just the first step in winning your girlfriend's heart back and you will definitely need to be ready when she gets back in touch with you after reading your letter. While you're waiting for her answer, make sure you take care of yourself, go out with friends and keep yourself busy - concentrate on being positive and upbeat. You want to be in the right state of mind when your girlfriend gets back to you. Don't hang around the phone and mope when you haven't heard anything yet.

Give it time. And play it cool when she does get in touch with you. Hopefully this has helped you with the first step in your question of "How can I get my girlfriend to love me again. . .even after I've cheated."

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Dealing with breakup pain, any way that you look at it, is not going to be an easy or enjoyable task. A lot of people incorrectly believe that they will be able to manage their heartbreak, only to find out that carrying a torch for someone after a love affair is a lot like grieving, at least if you look at the relationship as having passed on. When it comes to dealing with a broken intimate relationship, it is important that you look past the pain and find a way to survive even when things seem impossible for the time being.

Relationship breakup puts a lot of people through fear and misery. Some of the people going through these feelings have no one in the world to turn to, and this is why people suffer so hard from heartbreak in the first place. Dealing with breakup pain all by yourself can seem impossible at first, but consider how many people deal with love and loss in their lives and survive to talk about it. You too will be able to get over what feels like a crippling breakup, but only if you are willing to deal with heartbreak pain the right way, and the healthy way for that matter.

So why is the pain from a lost love breakup so difficult? Because when dealing with a breakup, it will seem as if you are the only one who has suffered the kind of pain youre going through. It is important that you continue to try to heal rather than allowing yourself to give up on the situation. Dwelling on the painful split from your lover will not help you, so instead you should work on getting better and moving on, which will allow you to stop dealing with breakup pain and start dealing with moving on and finding someone new, perhaps even someone that has a better dynamic with you.

* Spend time with your friends and let them help you get your mind off your heartbreak.

* Don't dwell on the bad feelings, but focus on the good parts of your life in order to promote healing.

Your friends will probably realize that you're going through something serious, and they will more than likely dedicate themselves to trying to help you through it. If this is the case, don't blow them off, because going out and spending time with your friends and the people that you care about will be extremely helpful when it comes to dealing with breakup pain. Everyone goes through a period where they are dealing with breakup pain, because everyone goes through a breakup. Rather than allow yourself to suffer while dealing with breaking up pain, what you should do is enjoy yourself and work on healing rather than allowing yourself to become stressed out, overwhelmed or depressed by your heartbreak.

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"Dear Abby,

"How do I get my husband to love me again?"

Have you been thinking this to yourself and wondering where to turn for help? You're marriage has gone stale and you don't know exactly why, or even if you do know why, you don't know exactly what to do about it.

What usually happens unfortunately is that as time passes, the powerful love, respect and admiration that women feel from their husband is replaced by feelings of hurt, awkwardness and distance. Some women are sure that their husbands have fallen out of love with them. sometimes the husband actually spells it out. Or sometimes the husband denies this but the "something's-wrong-feelings" are still around. If you feel that your husband has fallen out of love with you, there are steps you can take to bring you back to where you once were in your relationship and/or to make your marriage even stronger.

Try to think back to when you and your husband first fell in love. Do you remember what you loved about him and what he loved about you? Of course we all change as we get older so some of our qualities have become stronger and some have disappeared. A really common example of this is when a career-woman becomes a stay-at-home mom.

Sometimes husbands miss the way their wives were before they became homemakers. So now you're thinking, "Well, I can't do anything about that!" To some extent that's true. You have a new and important role now in life that you shouldn't give up but you could try to add some variety in every once in a while by taking a night off to go out with friends or volunteer for a cause. This will remind your husband, and probably even yourself, that you are a multi faceted person with a lot to offer.

Here is something else that you need to consider if you're trying to get your husband to fall back in love with you. Remember what the bible says? "Do unto others as you would have done to you. . ."? How are you treating your husband? Of course how you act towards him may be altered if you feel that he doesn't love you anymore. But how have you been treating him in the last few years even before you noticed the change in him? It's easy and commonplace to start taking your husband for granted once you're married and even more so after the years go on. He probably does the same with you.

Maybe you've been dedicating yourself to the children for the most part and that means less one-on-one time with your man? Or maybe you're constantly nagging him about certain things you want done around the house which he neglects to do?

If you can switch your behavior around and start treating your husband the way you would like to be treated, he will eventually catch on and do the same. By letting your husband know that you appreciate and love him, you'll bring the two of you closer. And that is one answer to your question "How do I get my husband to love me again?"

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"What do I want? I want my husband to love me again. That's the way it should be. So why is it not happening?"

If you're thinking along those lines because you're trapped in what you consider to be a loveless marriage, then pay attention to the following steps. They can help you remedy the situation.

All marriages have their own varying dynamics, problems and ups and downs. If you're still trying to work things out with your husband who has either told you that he doesn't love you anymore or just makes you feel that way, you are the one who needs to take action. The good news is that if your husband hasn't left you, then he probably still does love you, whether he knows it or not. You just need to prove it to him.

The most common reason that a man will distance himself or come out and tell you that he doesn't love you anymore is because he himself doesn't feel admired and respected. While it may be obvious to you that you admire and respect your husband, it may not be to him. There are many pressures that come into play in married life which cause admiration and respect to take a back step to disappointment and anger.

If you're putting your emphasis on your children, it's easy to get annoyed when your husband complains that you don't pay any attention to him anymore. After all, your children should be both of your priorities, right? And your husband should realize this, right? What your husband sees is that he is not getting the attention he once had. . .the attention that made him feel important and made him feel in love.

So, start by showing your husband a little more respect and admiration. This will most likely be very hard in the beginning, especially if he is ignoring you or just away a lot. It will bring your ego down a peg or two. . .but if it's worth it to you to get your husband back, then stick with it. Try a little less nagging about doing the house chores or work around the house. And when your husband does do something, thank him for it. Don't just take it for granted.

Try to be more affectionate in your words and actions. You don't want to be fawning all over him all the time, but you can tell him you love him and bring up good memories of the fun times you shared. If your husband just ignores you at first, don't let that stop you. Also make sure that you are taking care of yourself and doing things that you like to do. Eat right, get some exercise and go out with friends every once in a while. This will bring up your self-esteem and also change the way others, including your husband, perceive you.

If you're thinking "I want my husband to love me again", then take the above steps to get him back.

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You love him. Oh, you love him so much. The last thing you would want to do is "crowd" him. And you didn't think you were. You thought all the togetherness you and your boyfriend were experiencing was as wonderful for him as it was for you. Only now he says something that indicates he felt just the opposite.

He says he wants his space -- but he doesn't want to lose you. Huh?

First reaction: "Well, just how much space, darling? Should I go stand on the other side of the room or leave the house entirely?"

His answer: "No, no. Don't leave. It's just that ... well, I need some space."

Women are always puzzled when a man says he wants his space. What exactly does it mean to you and to your relationship?

To be blunt about it, when you hear a woman say, "he said he wants his space, but doesn't want to lose me," she's talking about a manwho wants to have his cake and eat it, too. Now, that sounds harsh, doesn't it? Well, I do believe in plain speaking, and hiding the truth from you will not help you.

Every time a woman tells me, "he said he wants his space, but doesn't want to lose me," I wonder whether she realizes what he's actually asking her to do. Does she realize that he is floating the idea that he can keep her as his girlfriend without remaining her boyfriend? Does she realize that he wants to enjoy the benefits of her love while doing none of the work that goes along with it? That he is leaving her, but not doing so in any honest way? That he is, in fact, sneaking out the side door?

Now, this doesn't mean he's a bad person. It could mean that he's going through a particularly bad time in his life, though. If you're dating a divorcing man, you might hear him say this. He doesn't want to be alone, but he doesn't want to take on the responsibility of making a commitment, either.

Or maybe he is under some other source of pressure, one that is causing him to hesitate to make decisions. And so, he says he wants space, but doesn't want to lose you.

That is a far kinder interpretation, however, than is usually warranted. It is too often the case that a man who says he wants space has already left the building. Saying he doesn't want to lose you is a way of giving you false hope and making him feel less guilty.

How do you react?

First, ask a couple of clarifying questions. What exactly is space? Does he want to see other people? Does he want to continue seeing you? Pose these questions, but don't expect to get clear answers.

Second, figure out what you want.

What is the best way to maintain the relationship?

First, ascertain whether there is a relationship. Very often this desire to have space will come along around the third month of dating. The third month is a transitional one. You're moving from simply being two people who date to being seen as a couple. This might be fine with you, for example, but bother him. Suddenly, he finds himself sliding into a "relationship," coupledom, when all he wanted was someone familiar he could date.

Unfortunately, by the time a man says he wants his space, he has alread

Again, what do you do?

Figure out what you want. At least, he is aware of his confusion. Are you aware of yours? If you are certain you want to be in a committed relationship, then you have to accept that this man, at least at this time, cannot give you what you want. Yes, you can probably persuade him to stay, but will not be "getting back together."

You will not be making up the right way. Making up the right way means commitment to the relationship from both sides, not just one.

Short and sweet: Let him go. And let go of the fear that keeps you tied to someone who is pushing you away. Let him go.

And be free to meet the right one, the one with whom you'll experience love the right way.

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