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Dealing with breakup pain, any way that you look at it, is not going to be an easy or enjoyable task. A lot of people incorrectly believe that they will be able to manage their heartbreak, only to find out that carrying a torch for someone after a love affair is a lot like grieving, at least if you look at the relationship as having passed on. When it comes to dealing with a broken intimate relationship, it is important that you look past the pain and find a way to survive even when things seem impossible for the time being.

Relationship breakup puts a lot of people through fear and misery. Some of the people going through these feelings have no one in the world to turn to, and this is why people suffer so hard from heartbreak in the first place. Dealing with breakup pain all by yourself can seem impossible at first, but consider how many people deal with love and loss in their lives and survive to talk about it. You too will be able to get over what feels like a crippling breakup, but only if you are willing to deal with heartbreak pain the right way, and the healthy way for that matter.

So why is the pain from a lost love breakup so difficult? Because when dealing with a breakup, it will seem as if you are the only one who has suffered the kind of pain youre going through. It is important that you continue to try to heal rather than allowing yourself to give up on the situation. Dwelling on the painful split from your lover will not help you, so instead you should work on getting better and moving on, which will allow you to stop dealing with breakup pain and start dealing with moving on and finding someone new, perhaps even someone that has a better dynamic with you.

* Spend time with your friends and let them help you get your mind off your heartbreak.

* Don't dwell on the bad feelings, but focus on the good parts of your life in order to promote healing.

Your friends will probably realize that you're going through something serious, and they will more than likely dedicate themselves to trying to help you through it. If this is the case, don't blow them off, because going out and spending time with your friends and the people that you care about will be extremely helpful when it comes to dealing with breakup pain. Everyone goes through a period where they are dealing with breakup pain, because everyone goes through a breakup. Rather than allow yourself to suffer while dealing with breaking up pain, what you should do is enjoy yourself and work on healing rather than allowing yourself to become stressed out, overwhelmed or depressed by your heartbreak.

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You love him. Oh, you love him so much. The last thing you would want to do is "crowd" him. And you didn't think you were. You thought all the togetherness you and your boyfriend were experiencing was as wonderful for him as it was for you. Only now he says something that indicates he felt just the opposite.

He says he wants his space -- but he doesn't want to lose you. Huh?

First reaction: "Well, just how much space, darling? Should I go stand on the other side of the room or leave the house entirely?"

His answer: "No, no. Don't leave. It's just that ... well, I need some space."

Women are always puzzled when a man says he wants his space. What exactly does it mean to you and to your relationship?

To be blunt about it, when you hear a woman say, "he said he wants his space, but doesn't want to lose me," she's talking about a manwho wants to have his cake and eat it, too. Now, that sounds harsh, doesn't it? Well, I do believe in plain speaking, and hiding the truth from you will not help you.

Every time a woman tells me, "he said he wants his space, but doesn't want to lose me," I wonder whether she realizes what he's actually asking her to do. Does she realize that he is floating the idea that he can keep her as his girlfriend without remaining her boyfriend? Does she realize that he wants to enjoy the benefits of her love while doing none of the work that goes along with it? That he is leaving her, but not doing so in any honest way? That he is, in fact, sneaking out the side door?

Now, this doesn't mean he's a bad person. It could mean that he's going through a particularly bad time in his life, though. If you're dating a divorcing man, you might hear him say this. He doesn't want to be alone, but he doesn't want to take on the responsibility of making a commitment, either.

Or maybe he is under some other source of pressure, one that is causing him to hesitate to make decisions. And so, he says he wants space, but doesn't want to lose you.

That is a far kinder interpretation, however, than is usually warranted. It is too often the case that a man who says he wants space has already left the building. Saying he doesn't want to lose you is a way of giving you false hope and making him feel less guilty.

How do you react?

First, ask a couple of clarifying questions. What exactly is space? Does he want to see other people? Does he want to continue seeing you? Pose these questions, but don't expect to get clear answers.

Second, figure out what you want.

What is the best way to maintain the relationship?

First, ascertain whether there is a relationship. Very often this desire to have space will come along around the third month of dating. The third month is a transitional one. You're moving from simply being two people who date to being seen as a couple. This might be fine with you, for example, but bother him. Suddenly, he finds himself sliding into a "relationship," coupledom, when all he wanted was someone familiar he could date.

Unfortunately, by the time a man says he wants his space, he has alread

Again, what do you do?

Figure out what you want. At least, he is aware of his confusion. Are you aware of yours? If you are certain you want to be in a committed relationship, then you have to accept that this man, at least at this time, cannot give you what you want. Yes, you can probably persuade him to stay, but will not be "getting back together."

You will not be making up the right way. Making up the right way means commitment to the relationship from both sides, not just one.

Short and sweet: Let him go. And let go of the fear that keeps you tied to someone who is pushing you away. Let him go.

And be free to meet the right one, the one with whom you'll experience love the right way.

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