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Remember: It's not just a matter of making up, but of making up the right way! Here's the compassionate guide that helped me, The Magic of Making Up.




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Don’t fall apart. Instead, take a deep breath. Smile, even though faintly, and calmly say, ‘Tin sorry you feel this way. I was hoping our relationship would be a long-term one. But I respect you too much to try to force you to love me. I hope we can remain friends, but the most important thing is to allow God to lead us.” This speech can blow the other person away–and hopefully pave the way for a continuing friendship, even though it’s not a growing one. You don’t have to part enemies.
The “What-Ifs” are so upsetting at times… we tend to either feel bad that what if i would had not done this and sometimes it is like what if he/she would had done this… what if always is a big question in all the relationship… but one can surely solve it by talking….and speaking the feelings out….
When I broke up, “what ifs” accumulated on my mind like anything! All my mistakes came to my mind one by one, and all I could do was to wish I had realized all this at the right time. When it has gone, it is gone, we cannot bring the time back. We can only move on in life, and it is surely for our own good.
We must never think about the “if’s” because 90% of what we are thinking would never happen. Why to live in an illusion? Be fearless and go ahead with what your heart says. Keep aside the rest. Your heart would lay forward a way, and all you have to do is follow it.
Be patient and leave all the “what if’s” aside otherwise you would not be able to accept the good things yet to come in your life. You need to open up for other good things waiting for you.